The reason for silence is to listen to God and enter union with Him. At first, silence appears to us as emptiness and we try to avoid it. But if we persevere in prayer, we will begin to listen to God. Even when we are unable to find exterior silence whe can learn to develop interior silence in order to be attentive to God. This is above all silence of the will. We only want God's will. We continue to be engaged in our duties but are interiorly detached so that God can lead us. We then find God in everything that is His will, things that make us suffer and things that bring joy. In all things we know that we are one with Him, loving Him. More and more we find delight in our relationships with others in as much as they are in God. We are happy finding God even in ordinary tasks This practice will allow God to bring us to "divine silence" where we are consumed in union with God. We then become contemplatives in the world. 

Interior silence puts away needless thoughts in order to be in intimacy with God. Blessed Elizabeth of the Trinity wrote, ‘We must extinguish every other light,’ and attain to God by nakedness of spirit, and not by building a learned structure of beautiful thoughts.”

The Tongue

Silence of Mary

Be Quiet!
Luke 4:31-37
In the synagogue there was a man who was possessed by the spirit of an unclean devil, and it shouted at the top of its voice, ‘Ha! What do you want with us, Jesus of Nazareth? Have you come to destroy us? I know who you are: the Holy One of God.’ But Jesus said sharply, ‘Be quiet! Come out of him!’ And the devil, throwing the man down in front of everyone, went out of him without hurting him at all. Astonishment seized them and they were all saying to one another, ‘What teaching! He gives orders to unclean spirits with authority and power and they come out.’ And reports of him went all through the surrounding countryside.

Fr. Jordi Rivero

-It is the holy day of sabbath and Jesus is in the synagogue teaching. The people go to listen but Him, but the devil also goes there. He does not rest. He tempts us even when we are before the Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament!

-What is the devil's temptation? To keep us from listening to Jesus, to keep us distracted with other things. To have our thoughts and speech center on ourselves and not in God.  We think our thoughts and talk is normal. We don't understand how the devil is keeping us away from Jesus even when we are close to Him, nor do we see how we offend Him.
-Do not think that the possessed man is so different from the rest of us. The possessed show us, like in a caricature, the work of the devil in all of us sinners. Martha too was tempted not to listen to Jesus when He visited her home in Bethany. She was tempted with busyness. The devil does not want to manifest himself openly. That blows his cover. He would rather work hidden as he does in most of us. But he cannot resist the power of the Word. That is when he exposes himself as we see in the Gospel. I have seen demonic manifestations when the Word is proclaimed with power. It happens also today.

-Notice the cynicism: "Ha! What do you want with us". Even in front of Jesus, even when he knows that he cannot stand up to Him, the devil acts with arrogance as if he was in control.
-Notice that the demon knows very well who Jesus is. Better than we do! He also recognizes all the holy ones.

-Now those present most likely did not realize at first that a demon was speaking through the man. Jesus was often rebuked and attacked as He is today and we don't realize that demons are behind all that. Think of the arrogance and the disdain towards religion so common today.

-The devil is seeking to influence our thoughts and speech. Modern media is being by the devil as a powerful tool of deception. We are influenced by the mindset of the world. The same demons are also at work against us personally. Gossip, imprudence, pride, lies, drawing attention to ourselves, judging...  How often does the devil succeeds with us!  How often do we grieve Jesus. We don allow Him to speak. We deny Him the use of our mind and tongue. We distract others from the truth. Jesus must say to us: "Be quiet!".  He does so because He wants to deliver us from the demons that torment us. He loves us so much! Only in silence can we begin to listen to Him. So let us repent, go to confession and consecrate out thoughts and speech to Him.

God speaks in silence

Benedict XVI
General Audience, 8/10/2011.  Source:

Note: The night before the pope gave this teaching, our community cenacle was on "silence".  Note that the Holy Father is not talking only about the silence of the monks. He speaks at the end of the "new communities" and of the need of have to find silence.  Emphasis added.

Dear Brothers and Sisters!

In every age, men and women who have consecrated their lives to God in prayer – like monks and nuns – have established their communities in particularly beautiful places: in the countryside, on hilltops, in valleys, on the shores of lakes or the sea, or even on little islands. These places unite two elements which are very important for contemplative life: the beauty of creation, which recalls that of the Creator, and silence, which is guaranteed by living far from cities and the great means of communication.  Silence is the environmental condition that most favors contemplation, listening to God and meditation. The very fact of experiencing silence and allowing ourselves to be "filled," so to speak, with silence, disposes us to prayer. The great prophet, Elijah, on Mount Horeb – that is, Sinai – experienced strong winds, then an earthquake, and finally flashes of fire, but he did not recognize the voice of God in them; instead, he recognized it in a light breeze (cfr. 1 Rev 19:11-13). God speaks in silence, but we need to know how to listen. This is why monasteries are oases in which God speaks to humanity; and  there we find the courtyard, a symbolic place because it is a closed space, but open toward the sky.

Tomorrow, dear friends, we will celebrate the memory of St. Clare of Assisi. So I would like to recall one of these "oases" of the spirit which is particularly dear to the Franciscan family and to all Christians: the little convent of San Damiano, situated just beneath the city of Assisi, among the olive groves that slope towards Santa Maria degli Angeli. In that little church, which Francis restored after his conversion, Chiara and her first companions established their community, living off prayer and little works. They were called the "Poor Sisters," and their "form of life" was the same as the Frati Minori: "To observe the Holy Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ" (Rule of St. Clare, I, 2), conserving the union of reciprocal charity (cfr ivi, X, 7) and observing in particular the poverty and humility of Jesus and his Most Holy Mother (cfr, ivi, XII, 13).

The silence and beauty of the place in which the monastic community lives – simple and austere beauty – are like a reflection of the spiritual harmony which the community itself attempts to create. The world is filled with these oases of the spirit, some very ancient, particularly in Europe; others are more recent, while still others have been restored by new communities. Looking at things from a spiritual perspective, these places of the spirit are a load-bearing structure of the world! It is no accident that many people, especially in times of rest, visit these places and stop there for some days: even the soul, thanks be to God, has its needs!

Let us remember, therefore, St. Clare. But let us also remember other Saints who remind us of the importance of turning our gaze to the "things of heaven," like St. Edith Stein, Teresa Benedicta of the Cross, Carmelite, co-patron of Europe, whom we celebrated yesterday. And today, August 10, we cannot forget St. Lawrence, deacon and martyr, with a special wish for Romans who have always venerated him as one of their patrons. Finally, let us turn our gaze to the Virgin Mary, that she may teach us to love silence and prayer.

Benedict XVI  Source

We live in a society in which it seems that every space, every moment must be "filled" with initiatives, activity, sound; often there is not even time to listen and dialogue. Dear brothers and sisters! Let us not be afraid to be silent outside and inside ourselves, so that we are able not only to perceive God’s voice, but also the voice of the person next to us, the voices of others.

Pope Francis
Silence, Mystery
, 12/20/13  Full text >>

Pope Francis reflected on the day's Gospel from St Luke (1:26-38), which record the words of the angel Gabriel to Mary: "The power of the Most High will overshadow you. The Holy Spirit will come upon you".

"God's overshadowing of us in our lives," the Pope continued, helps us to "discover our own mystery: our mystery of encounter with the Lord, the mystery of our life's journey with the Lord". In fact, he said, "each of us knows how mysteriously the Lord works in his or her heart and soul. And this is the overshadowing, the power, the Holy Spirit's style, as it were, for veiling our mystery. This overshadowing in us, in our lives, is called silence. Silence is the cloud that veils the mystery of our relationship with the Lord, of our holiness and of our sins".

"It is a mystery that we cannot explain. But when there is no silence in our lives, we lose the mystery, it goes away". Hence the importance "of guarding the mystery with silence: this is the cloud, this is God's power in us, it is the strength of the Holy Spirit".

"I think about how many times (Mary) remained silent, how many times she did not say what she felt in order to guard the mystery of her relationship with her Son".

The Pope then gave voice to "the silence of Our Lady at the foot of the Cross," as Pope John Paul II had done before him. In reality, he said, the Gospel does not report any words from Our Lady. Mary "was silent, but within her heart how many things she said to the Lord" in that crucial moment in history. Likely, Mary would have thought back to the angel's words regarding her Son: "On that day you told me he would be great! You told me he would be given the throne of David his father and that he would reign for ever! But now look there" at the Cross. Mary, Pope Francis added, "veiled in silence the mystery which she did not understand. And through silence she allowed the mystery to grow and flourish," thus bringing great hope to all.

"The Holy Spirit will come upon you, the power of the Most High will overshadow you". The angel's words to Mary assure us that "the Lord veils his mystery," the Pope said. For "the mystery of our relationship with God, of our journey, of our salvation should not be aired or publicized. Silence should be its guard".

Pope Francis concluded with a prayer: "Lord grant us all the grace to love silence, to seek it out, to have a heart guarded by the cloud of silence. Thus the mystery growing within us shall bear much fruit".


Stillness, Silence & the Word
xcerpts from Romano Guardini’s Meditations Before Mass, Sophia Institute Press.

There is no need to exaggerate. Men live, and living things move; a forced outward conformity is no better than restlessness. Nevertheless, stillness is still, and it comes only if seriously desired. If we value it, it brings us joy; if not, discomfort. People are often heard to say: “But I can’t help coughing” or “I can’t kneel quietly”; yet once stirred by a concert or lecture they forget all about coughing and fidgeting. That stillness proper to the most beautiful things in existence dominates, a quiet area of attentiveness in which the beautiful and truly important reign. We must earnestly desire stillness and be willing to give something for it; then it will be ours. Once we have experienced it, we will be astounded that we were able to live without it.

Moreover, stillness must not be superficial, as it is when there is neither speaking nor squirming; our thoughts, our feelings, our hearts must also find repose. Then genuine stillness permeates us, spreading ever deeper through the seemingly plumbless world within.

Once we try to achieve such profound stillness, we realize that it cannot be accomplished all at once. The mere desire for it is not enough; we must practice it. The minutes before Holy Mass are best; but in order to have them for genuine preparation we must arrive early. They are not a time for gazing or for daydreaming or for un necessary thumbing of pages, but for inwardly collecting and calming ourselves. It would be still better to begin on our way to church. After all, we are going to a sacred celebration. Why not let the way there be an exercise in composure, a kind of overture to what is to come?...

Stillness is the tranquility of the inner life, the quiet at the depths of its hidden stream. It is a collected, total presence, a being all there, receptive, alert, ready. There is nothing inert or oppressive about it.

Attentiveness — that is the clue to the stillness in question, the stillness before God.

What then is a church? It is, to be sure, a building having walls, pillars, space. But these express only part of the word church, its shell. When we say that Holy Mass is celebrated “in church,” we are including some thing more: the congregation. Congregation, not merely people. Churchgoers arriving, sitting, or kneeling in pews are not necessarily a congregation; they can be simply a roomful of more or less pious individuals. Congregation is formed only when those individuals are present not only corporally but also spiritually, when they have contacted one another in prayer and step together into the spiritual “space” around them; strictly speaking, when they have first widened and heightened that space by prayer. Then true congregation comes into being, which, along with the building that is its architectural expression, forms the vital church in which the sacred act is accomplished.

All this takes place only in stillness; out of stillness grows the real sanctuary. It is important to understand this. Church buildings may be lost or destroyed; then everything depends on whether the faithful are capable of forming congregations that erect indestructible “churches” wherever they happen to find themselves, no matter how poor or dreary their quarters. We must learn and practice the art of constructing spiritual cathedrals.

We cannot take stillness too seriously. Not for nothing do these reflections on the Liturgy open with it. If someone were to ask me what the liturgical life begins with, I should answer: with learning stillness. Without it, everything remains superficial, vain. Our understanding of stillness is nothing strange or aesthetic. Were we to approach stillness on the level of aesthetics — of mere withdrawal into the ego — we should spoil everything. What we are striving for is something very grave, very important, and unfortunately sorely neglected: the prerequisite of the liturgical holy act.

Silence and the Word

We have discussed stillness in the presence of God. Only in such stillness, it was contended, can the congregation fundamental to the sacred ritual come into being. Only in stillness can the room in which Holy Mass is celebrated be exalted into a church. Hence the beginning of divine service is the creation of stillness. Stillness is intimately related to speech and the word.

The word is a thing of mystery, so volatile that it vanishes almost on the lip, yet so powerful that it decides fates and determines the meaning of existence. A frail structure shaped by fleeting sound, it yet contains the eternal: truth. Words come from within, rising as sounds fashioned by the organs of a man’s body, as expressions of his heart and spirit. He utters them, yet he does not create them, for they already existed independently of him. One word is related to another; together they form the great unity of language, that empire of truth-forms in which a man lives.

The living word arranges itself onion-like in various layers. The outermost is that of simple communication: news or a command. These can be conveyed artificially, as they often are, by the printed word or by some sound-apparatus that reproduces human speech. The syllables thus produced draw their significance from genuine language, and they answer specific needs well enough. But this superficial, often mechanical, level of words is not yet true speech, which exists only in proportion to the amount of inner conviction carried over from the speaker to that which is spoken. The more clearly his meaning is embodied in intelligible sounds, and the more fully his heart is able to express itself, the more truly does his speech become living word.

The inmost spirit lives by truth, by its recognition of what is and what has value. Man expresses this truth in words. The more fully he recognizes it, the better his speech and the richer his words. But truth can be recognized only from silence. The constant talker will never, or at least rarely, grasp truth. Of course even he must experience some truths; otherwise he could not exist. He does notice certain facts, observe certain relations, draw conclusions and make plans. But he does not yet possess genuine truth, which comes into being only when the essence of an object, the significance of a relation, and what is valid and eternal in this world reveal themselves. This requires the spaciousness, freedom, and pure receptiveness of that inner “clean-swept room” which silence alone can create. The constant talker knows no such room within himself; hence he cannot know truth. Truth, and consequently the reality of speech, depends upon the speaker’s ability to speak and to be silent in turn.

But what of fervor, which lives on emotion and emotion’s evaluation of the costliness and significance of things? Doesn’t fervor flow more abundantly into speech the more immediate the experience behind it? And doesn’t that immediacy remain greatest the less one stops to think? That is true, at least for the moment. But it is also true that the person who talks constantly grows empty, and his emptiness is not only momentary. Feelings that are always promptly poured out in words are soon exhausted. The heart incapable of storing anything, of withdrawing into itself, cannot thrive. Like a field that must constantly produce, it is soon impoverished.

Only the word that emerges from silence is substantial and powerful. To be effective it must first find its way into open speech, although this is not necessary for some truths: those inexpressible depths of comprehension of one’s self, of others, and of God. For these the experienced but unspoken suffices. For all others, however, the interior word must become exterior. Just as there exists a perverted variety of speech — talk — there exists also a perverted silence — dumbness. Dumbness is just as bad as garrulity. It occurs when silence, sealed in the dungeon of a heart that has no outlet, becomes cramped and oppressive. The word breaks open the stronghold. It carries light into the darkness and frees what has been held captive.

Speech enables a man to account for himself and the world and to overcome both. It indicates his place among others and in history. It liberates. Silence and speech belong together. The one presupposes the other. Together they form a unit in which the vital man exists, and the discovery of that unit’s namelessness is strangely beautiful. We do know this: man’s essence is enclosed in the sphere of silence / speech just as the whole earthly life is enclosed in that of light /darkness, day / night.

Consequently, even for the sake of speech we must practice silence. To a large extent the Liturgy consists of words that we address to and receive from God. They must not degenerate into mere talk, which is the fate of all words, even the profoundest and holiest, when they are spoken improperly. In the words of the Liturgy, the truth of God and of redeemed man is meant to blaze. In them the heart of Christ — in whom the Father’s love lives — and the hearts of His followers must find their full expression. Through the liturgical word our inwardness passes over into the realm of sacred openness which the congregation and its mystery create before God. Even God’s holy mystery — which was entrusted by Christ to His followers when He said, “As often as you shall do these things, in memory of me shall you do them” — is renewed through the medium of human words.

... Silence opens the inner fount from which the word rises.

Love Crucified